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5 Years…

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Maybe I should have posted this on New Year’s Day as it would have been my 5th year blog anniversary then. This would be a good time to reflect and jot down my blogging thoughts from the past 5 years. Happy belated 5 years to me!

I have had some up and downs with my blog, went through phases of not blogging for months but when I do blog a few times, I would disappear again for so many months. This was probably the first two and a half years. I had the worse organisation skills back then and didn’t have the time because of university assignments etc. I had even considered to stop blogging for good. But once I had graduated (2 and a half years ago now), I had started to focus on my blog more as I had more time. I had to rebuild it from the beginning, not 100% from scratch, just on top with what was already there.

I wouldn’t say I’m a new blogger nor an established one. Just one that’s hanging around in the sea of blogs. I may not have a big number of followers and I do see the number fluctuate but in my opinion, I’m proud of what I have right now. There are bloggers who have been doing it for a shorter time period than I and have accumulated a higher number of followings as compared to mine. This doesn’t discourage me at all and I don’t feel jealous in any way shape or form. To me, it’s just numbers. I do not dwell on numbers. I’m more surprised I’ve got this many. Other bloggers may have been nominated for awards such as the cosmopolitan blog awards or had amazing opportunities in a shorter time frame. Again, I don’t get jealous. I congratulate them and am happy for them. Proud as well. Jealousy is ugly. I had never felt the need to be competitive or be fake. Yes there is competition out there, but why?

I have been asked “Would I be a full time blogger?” many times before. My answer to that would be no. Simple. Why, you may ask? I may have considered it but in reality, would I really still be doing this when I’m in my 50’s? Can I see myself? No. Who knows, I may get sick and tired of it before I’m 50 or it may happen a lot sooner. We’ll never know till when it actually happens. I have a full time job and it’s the start of my career in a chosen field I may want to spend the rest of my life in. I cannot see myself living off my blog in general. This is my reality. It is just a hobby I enjoy; somewhere where I can getaway from a stressful day.

What I have now, I would consider it an achievement. Even if I had only one follower or no views throughout the five years, sticking to something for a long time is a great achievement I’d say. Even though I don’t really put my blog out right there, it doesn’t mean I haven’t been working hard on it – we all know how much time and effort it takes to write one blog post. I just take on a different approach to advertising my blog. I am grateful with what I currently have and am enjoying every moment of it. I have been given amazing opportunities and am thankful for them.

I have actually been blogging for around 10 years, since I was 13 and am now nearly 24 (eek). For the very first 5 years, I was blogging on a different platform called Xanga, documenting anything such as images I liked from the internet, music, school life, random thoughts, life in general. From experience, I guess I have had the chance to see the blogging community grow and have seen so many changes throughout the years, the good, the bad and the ugly. It is a lot different to when I had very first started blogging in general. It wasn’t big back then and wasn’t as big when I had started this one.

In all honesty, I cannot see my blog as being one of the top blogs out there. I think we’ve all got to embrace with what we currently have and don’t let the idea of numbers take over, being obsessed with it and possibly ruin things. Anything can fall apart in a matter of seconds, when you least expect it – remember that. There is a difference between dwelling and goals.

Thank you to those who read and or follow my blog, whether it’s for years or recently, and thank you to my blog for helping me grow as a person. It’s been a fun journey so far but there are many new things for me to learn. Let’s see what the future brings.


27 responses to “5 Years…”

  1. Nicole Cheng says:

    Happy 5th birthday to your blog ^^ I remember those Xanga days…good riddance, haha. I don't think I could ever be a full time blogger either.

  2. Hayley Warren says:

    5 years is brilliant! Well done, it's such a great achievement!

  3. atosa nikkhah says:

    congratulations 5 years is an amazing achievement!

  4. Federica B says:

    I can definitely relate with what you say, I see my blog as an hobby and I'm not obsessed with numbers at all. It's just something that I like and I'm passionated about and I'm going to keep on writing on it until I get bored. Congrats on your 5th anniversary, you're doing a great job!

  5. Happy birthday – five years is definitely a great achievement and you should be proud.


  6. Jenny says:

    Its incredible to think you have been blogging for 5 years! Huge congrats <3

    All the best for 2015 ♥

  7. Sheri | Flowers and Freckles says:

    Happy five years! I've been going just over three years (I can't believe it's been that long!) I know what you mean though, it really helps not to get bogged down in the numbers or what other people are doing, blog for yourself, because you love it, not because you want to be the best! xx

  8. Happy 5 years!! I'm just finishing up my 5th year, and I've got the same outlook as you: my blog is my place to relax and unwind and control what goes up when, not something I'm going to try and monetize (and thus allow others to dictate some of what goes up and when.) If you're doing what you love, keep at it, have fun!

  9. Angeline Lee says:

    Congratulations on 5 years!

  10. WhatLauraLoves says:

    Congrats on five years of blogging! Ive just discovered your blog- its fab! Here's to the next 5 years! xxx

  11. Suzanne says:

    Happy 5TH! I am headed into my fourth year now and love blogging more then ever. We all do it for different reasons, but I would do this full time if I could afford to. Here is to a productive 2015!

  12. eLaNaKcL says:

    Big congrats and well done. Its great to reflect on your previous experiences.

  13. I Am Kevin Fanciz says:

    happy anniversary on your blog, keep on blogging what you like and share your knowledge to the world

  14. Fatbeauty x says:

    Aw Happy Bloggerversary 😀 This is my first time here but what a lovely blog! Lets hope you have another great year lovely!

    Lucie xx
    Fatbeautyx | Plus Size Fashion & Beauty Blogger & Vlogger

  15. Katie Nelson says:

    Happy blog birthday! Can't wait to see what 2015 brings for you 🙂

    Katie || K NEL xx

  16. Louise Banta says:

    Congratulations for reaching 5 years of blogging. It's an achievement because not everyone really sticks around especially if it's not really their profession. Happy New Year! 🙂

  17. Fernando Lachica says:

    Very cool of you with your passion to blog about beautiful things in life. Congratulations!

  18. Vanessa says:

    Wow, it's been five years since you started your challenging adventure in the world of fashion! I am really glad that you started this blog which is so inspirational for me!

  19. Steph Chan says:

    Congratulations on five years of blogging, such a big achievement! I agree with you, blogging is so time consuming, I can't imagine myself being a full time blogger but I hope you stick to your resolution and blog more often!

    Steph // STEEZY

  20. Eliz Obih-Frank says:

    Happy Anniversary! Like you, I've had my ups and downs blogging and I do it because I love the creative process and the interactions.

  21. Kirsten Thyra says:

    Happy Anniversary!

  22. beautyqueenuk says:

    Wow, 5 years is brilliant x

  23. Angelo The Explorer says:

    5 years is a long time and I think you are doing a great job! All of us have highs and lows but lets continue what makes us happy and that is writing. Happy New Year

  24. lee rosales says:

    happy 5th! kreep on writing what you love and what inspires you. even when youre 50 just do whatever your heart desires

  25. Vivian Yuen says:

    Happy five years hun! I personally love reading your blog and it's always fab to hear and see from someone who does it as a hobby and passion rather than out of duty!

    LIVE . IN . LOVE ✞


  26. Kristina Maggiora says:

    WOW congrats on 5 years lovely 🙂 Love your blog!

    Creepers & Cupcakes

  27. Karolina Gespucci says:

    <3333 such nice post!
    love it

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