[ETC] Haters…What are your thoughts?

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I was wondering why all of these haters are targeting me especially Formspring. Above are a few. Are they expecting the comments to hurt me so much that I’ll end up committing suicide or something? I wonder if they know what this is called CYBER BULLYING.

I know that everyone has haters but is there a point to express their hatred? Do they get some kind of special thrill? What are their motives? Will they get further in life?

I don’t get upset or hurt, I just laugh at them and reply in the same manner as they talked to me.

I don’t mind criticism as it’ll help me etc.

Dear Haters,
Please do your research before saying any of this shit as there is a 99.99999% that you personally do not know me and what u see in pictures is what you assume I’m like that. Most of the pictures are from night outs/clubbing therefore I wear just a little bit more.
The chances of you seeing me in person is zero so you assume I wear shit loads of makeup especially from the pictures etc. I do this beauty blog as a hobby, something to keep me occupied whenever I get bored.
In person, I hardly wear makeup and am not ashamed of my own natural looks. This means I do go out in public without makeup quite a lot as I am a lazy person. Even if I do wear makeup during the day, it’s just eyeliner and false lashes and lip balm.
Was you trying to make me upset by saying shit through formspring etc?

What have ever done to them to make them hate me? :/
What are your thoughts about haters?
I get a lot of questions about posting a picture of me without makeup. Why are people so curious about it? Are they expecting a very big difference etc? I know I did say that I’m not ashamed of my natural looks and I seriously am not ashamed. People have stated that there isn’t a big difference and that I don’t wear a lot of makeup.
If they keep asking this, does this mean I’m pressured into doing a post on me makeup less?

40 comments so far.

40 responses to “[ETC] Haters…What are your thoughts?”

  1. Angie says:

    I say screw 'em but I get angry too. Sometimes when I see something I have opposition to on Youtube or a blog, I just keep it to myself. That's my personal opinion. If I really need to get it out, I do it with tact but not aiming to belittle the other person. That's against the spirit of blogging.

    Besides, they're lazy asses who don't put forth the effort and blog anyway. I say, if people are being stupid, just close down Formspring. Anonymity is a privilege.

    I support you, Nicol! Keep blogging !

  2. TINGkabelle CHAN ♥ says:

    oh dear, that's horrible. i cant understand why they want to hurt you 🙁
    it's good you could handle it well. stay strong!! =] x

  3. LexiTokyo says:

    Ugh. I can't stand people like that.
    Jealous haters. =P
    You're actually very pretty.

  4. beautyandthebeast says:

    WTF clearly this is all about Jelousy.

    So what if you *did* wear a ton of make up, make up cant transform someone hideous into a beauty.

    You are clearly gorgeous and wear make up to enhance your looks.

    Clearly whoever made these comments has no beauty to enhance and just wants to try and make you feel bad.

    I agree that this is bullying, can yuo report it to Formspring? Maybe they can ban their IP address.


  5. † XDOLL † says:

    Every beauty blogger/beauty guru (on YT) have haters…it's just one of those things. Good for you for not letting them knock your confidence.. stay strong and keep doing what you're doing.

    Sometimes it's better to just delete nasty comments rather than replying, these people are clearly trying to get a reaction out of you so don't give them the satisfaction!

    <3 your blog – I support you Nicole! =)

  6. Ushishi says:

    that's just sad , they are just jealous that they don't have what you have. It shows insecurity when you try to attack someone by saying how bad they look, so don't worry about it. You shouldn't feel bad at all.

  7. KrySTYLES says:

    just like everyone says, Haters are inevitable and they just hate in spite of jealousy. Don't listen to them and their stupid remarks about calling you ugly, You're adorable!

  8. Sandy says:

    I hate those people and what they've said to you. It bothers me how they actually go out of their way and attempt to ruin your day. But I'm glad it doesn't really bother you because it shouldn't. I don't think you're obligated to post a picture of you with no makeup. I do remember you posting simple and natural look a week or two ago actually, lol haters are too demanding.

  9. Stacieee says:

    Girl~ you know the ppl that put up comments like that are doing it so they will get a reaction from you, they want to see you get mad and defend yourself. My advice, you are above them, so let them say what they want to say, those who know you and care for you will not give a damn about those hater comments.

    Don't let it bother you, there will always be someone somewhere that lives off of saying mean things to others just for the heck of it.

  10. rhaindropz says:

    dear.. always remember this


    hugs and kisses

  11. Dolce♥Bunny says:

    you are waaaay better than them. Gosh! You are out there expressing and helping others with their beauty tips and being proud of your looks, while they just sit on their lazy bums and trollin' around.
    You handled it very well and they don't deserve anymore time wasting.
    Keep up the blogging, and we readers will keep up the comments! And I bet these are ALL honest comments 🙂

  12. ManEater says:

    Fuck haters. hahaha That's all I gotta I say. I seriously think they're all just hating because you got your game on. Instead of complaining and whining, all fucking haters need to be steppin up their game. Don't give anymore attention to them. You're just fueling their loserness. Anyways, keep your game on. 😉

  13. ipehishere says:

    Fuck haters!!!! be your self yuki! they re just fuckin jealous !! and wth problem with ur nose !! omg i cant see the problem.. well i hv more flat nose than u XD haha proud to hv asian nose !!!

  14. Cydia says:

    thats why ive deleted my formspring its retarded people say stupid stuff…just ignore them

  15. Krissy says:

    ignore.ignore.ignore…thats what i think..the more you reply to their comments the more they like it actually..haha

    and i quote from the song 32 flavors by ani difranco

    "and god help you if you are an ugly girl
    course too pretty is also your doom
    cause everyone harbors a secret hatred
    for the prettiest girl in the room
    and god help you if you are a pheonix
    and you dare to rise up from the ash
    a thousand eyes will smolder with jealousy
    while you are just flying back"

    love your blogs, keep it up! <3

  16. FakeMemory says:

    trolls will be trolls!
    just ignore the comments, all they want is your reaction and attention.

  17. Therese Jane says:

    These people need to get lives. But I got to say, haters are a lot like fans – they obsess over everything you do… the only difference is that they do so to pick out the flaws.

    These people have too much time on their hands and I don't think you should even bother replying to them.

  18. Robin says:

    People are always going to criticize you -_-
    But really, you need to ignore it. they don't know what they're taking about. don't even bother dealing with people like that…you're just giving them the attention they're looking for!

  19. angelamhiere says:

    Just ignore them… maybe they just envy you… You're so cute, dear! ^__^

  20. ••RASPBERRY JAM•• says:

    i just can say
    these are really haters-such jealous people.
    these are haters they have nothing to in their live or they have a lot of time to giving you some bad comments. thats just ridiculous.
    i mean if they dont like u they can keep away from ur page and save these stupid comments.
    just ignore them,
    they cant do it better:)

  21. Susie says:

    Whoever that is has no life. Seriously, they must be THAT bored with themselves that they have to sit there & TRY to make someone else feel bad about them. They obviously have no life. Don't let any of what they say get to you though, of course none of it is true. I think you're such a sweet girl & you don't deserve any of that.


  22. Beauty Vibes says:

    Just stay yourself, if they don't accept you it's their own problem!

    You have plenty of people out there appreciating your efforts, so just keep that in mind and don't feel forced to change or to do something you don't feel like doing 🙂

  23. Katie Ngo says:

    Hey Nicol,
    Wow, I just read that whole thing. First thought that came to mind was, daaamn they must of been jealous straight up by the way they are typing. That, AND the way they comment you, they must have known you from somewhere and are just simply jealous and still till today jealous of you. They got nothing on you. When they bring up the past LIKE THAT, talking all that crap, then they are just playing that childish game. As long as your being you, we will always support you no matter what. I know its hard to ignore these worthless haters, but they aren't worth anyone time. The last thing on my mind is f u c k haters. Your beautiful with or without make-up regardless. <3

  24. Applesushi says:

    I just don't get haters : /
    If i don't like something/someone i just move on, or read/look at something else, it's just childish to make rude comments!

    I think they are actually jealous of you because you're really pretty! And you have a nice nose, so don't know what that comment's about…

  25. hiewman says:

    YO GO GIRL!!.. ignore those mf. laa ~~ ur beatiful!!!

  26. Missmoomin says:

    Forumspring is basically a breeding ground for trolls, you know they wouldn't dare say these things to anyone IRL.
    Ah the anonymity of the internet.
    They must be quite jealous/obsessed to even waste their time to type these spiteful remarks, it's quite scary actually. :/
    What do I think of these haters? One word: Pathetic.

  27. ♥TanyaMarie♥ says:

    They're just insecure with thmselves.

  28. Vivien says:

    Aw. ):
    It really sucks that people have such low self-esteem that they have to go do these kinda thing. Like you said, just laugh it off. Those type of people aren't worth feeling upset over.

    By the way, I think you're gorgeous! ^^ Your blog is also lots of fun to read. :]

  29. Rosanna says:

    The best thing to do is not to feed them. They want your attention. Haters gonna hate.

    The comments you recived on formspring are very unconstructive. I reckon it's a 1-3 jealous girls you may or may not know in real life that hate that you are a pretty, happy, clever young lady and want to bring you down to make them feel better about the jealousy.

    Jealous people like that will eventually get over it, so don't fret!

    In the mean time keep smilin' 🙂

  30. MiszShara says:

    oufttt! Wish they drop dead hehehe!

    Glad it doesn't upset you =D
    Your very pretttyyyy <3

  31. Dina says:

    The haters need to show themselves, Just shows how pathetic they are by hiding behind a computer screen.

    I think you're beautiful. I don't think you wear too much make-up.
    I don't see what is wrong with wearing alot of make up anyway, If it makes you more confident then so be it! Who care's what anyone else thinks.


  32. Sally says:

    Some people are just so mean… they probably jealous of you coz they are butt ugly.. And they don't have the guts to say it to your face or let you know who they are… so they are just laaaame and sad, and should be ignored!

  33. BuNnYLuBerz says:

    People actually say these things to you? wow im emberassed for them, how immature.

  34. M00C says:

    Girl jus ignore them! I wouldn't respond back to them…don't go to their idiotic level! U will have haters in life…rise above them and show u don't care =] don't waste ur time on them. Jealousy is a disease hahaa.


  35. Linda Phuong Tran says:

    Hey Nicol =)!
    people are just really mean and i guess they want to make thmselves feel better about themseleves… it's probably jealousy you know?! hehe ignore them. they're just losers! and i dont think you wear a lot of make up at all!! hehe, pretty natural to me =P. XOXO

  36. daer0n says:

    Wow, I don't even know where to begin, but, let me tell you, first of all, you are not ugly, that's for sure. It doesn't look to me like you wear a lot of makeup, and I think your skin is gorgeous. Your eyes are also pretty and sure you have asian features but I really believe that asian women are all very gorgeous! I can assure you I am not buttering you up, it is what I see.

    The only thing I can tell you about 'haters' is that people that make horrible remarks like that are nothing but full of insecurities, and they reflect who they are on the inside. I would advise anyone that has been attacked/bullied this way to ignore the people that do it. They must feel so empty and depressed to see other people who they consider beautiful deep down but are too jealous to recognize it and they need to attack them to feel better and uplifted. It is lack of self esteem, that's all it is.

    Jealousy can go so far, and to me, seeing the comments and what they all say, it tells me that it is the same person probably disguising themselves as different people to pour out their hate on you making you think that there are a lot of people who think the same.

    Ignore them, you can always make out the best out of every situation, and every situation brings us a positive experience, in this case, you can see them and know, that you will never be like them, and you would never say things like that to other people, so let this situation propel you up to know the difference between a depressed and insecure human being and let it be a learning lesson for you to become a better person inside and know that you are beautiful inside and out and that things like this should never be given a lot of importance, because the more importance you give them the more prevalent they become.

    Have a great day!

  37. Keira says:

    when I first saw this,I couldn't believe there are ppl out there could hate a cute girl like you~! I think you are pretty with or without any makeup. And you are so patient to answer my questions. Lots of pretty girls are a bit snobbish, but you are so down-to-earth =)

    Keira xxxxxx

  38. Kateyaya says:

    these people are so stupid and insane and jealous. don't let them get to ya you're awesome

  39. Yellowluva says:

    Ignore snobbish people they just wish they were you. They're the ones noticing you not the other way around, so look at picture this way "You're the TV and they're the watchers."

    Just remember to keep your head up, they are only keeping talks.

  40. lovesicles says:

    i don't think the first comment is a hater comment.
    a lot of people can't differentiate between hate and criticism.
    maybe that person is saying you look better with less makeup.
    which is probably the case.

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